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Out of good intentions and sometimes our own unresolved issues we can become controlling or coercive, robbing our children of the freedoms they need for their own growth. Parenting requires we find the balance between loving our children, disciplining them and allowing them the necessary confusion and suffering essential for their self-discovery.

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Our belief in our children determines their belief in themselves. When our children feel dominated by our fears about every new little thing they want to do, explore or experience our fears covertly communicate we do not believe in them. This covert message undermines our children causing them to either not believe in themselves or to rebel against the controlling nature of our fears. We must have faith in our children and give them the rope they need to struggle, discover and succeed.

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When we rob our children of their pain and we do not allow them the possibility of failure, then we also rob them of Did you want to be a father never worked pursuit of happiness. Our children need our counsel to understand that the most important part of life is the worthwhile struggle of discovering a sense of meaning and purpose.

Each child is here in this life to be their own person. They are not here to be like us, they are not here to be as-good-as or better-than their siblings, peers or the children of our friends. When we compare our children we are telling them they are not as good as others.

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If we use comparison, it should only be used as an example of how far our children have come from where they were before. Use compassion instead of comparison.

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If you do not respect your children, they will in turn learn not to respect you. Children will do as you do, not as you say.

They are not going to respect you simply because you are an adult.

They can only respect an adult who respects them. If you ridicule them, they will ridicule and disobey you. If you want to be respected by them, respect yourself and show them what that looks like. Most importantly respect them; it is through the respect given to them that they naturally learn to respect themselves Sex cam Sorocaba hotel you.

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There is no substitute for you. Never let babysitters, iPads, videogames or other things become the parent or caretaker of your children.

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We are a working society and all have obligations but children must come first. Make daily time to spend with your kids in whatever capacity you can appropriate to their developmental level. With a teenager it may only be 5 to 10 minutes of facetime with them and that may be all they need, but make sure they get it.

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